{"id":2799,"date":"2012-06-13T00:57:12","date_gmt":"2012-06-12T23:57:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dickonedwards.com\/diary\/?p=2799"},"modified":"2012-06-13T02:33:09","modified_gmt":"2012-06-13T01:33:09","slug":"turning-off-the-tap","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dickonedwards.com\/diary\/index.php\/archive\/turning-off-the-tap\/","title":{"rendered":"Turning Off The Tap"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quick notice for UK readers.<\/p>\n<p>If you think the UK law should be changed to allow gay couples to marry, please say so in the consultation at\u00c2\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/Out4marriage.com\">Out4marriage.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s essentially a questionnaire that takes about two minutes to click through. But the government <em>will<\/em>\u00c2\u00a0use the results, so it&#8217;s important.<\/p>\n<p>What interests me in particular is that the current Home Secretary, the right wing Theresa May, is one of the pro-gay marriage campaigners. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.pinknews.co.uk\/2010\/05\/12\/analysis-how-pro-gay-is-the-new-home-secretary-and-minister-for-equality-theresa-may\/\">In the past she voted against equalising the ages of consent for gay people, and also voted against the repealing of the anti-gay Clause 28<\/a>. But people change, and times change. There&#8217;s much about the current lot in power that worries me but this is at least one commendable state of affairs.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8216;What a disgraceful lapse! Nothing added to my disquisition, and life allowed to waste like a tap left running. Eleven days unrecorded.&#8217;<\/em> \u2013 Virginia Woolf, from her diaries.<\/p>\n<p>This appropriate quote managed to pop up in two very different books I&#8217;ve been reading: Alexandra Harris&#8217;s short biography of Ms Woolf, and Alison Bechdel&#8217;s comic book memoir\u00c2\u00a0<em>Are You My Mother?\u00c2\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Since my exam on May 22nd, which ended my first year as a born-again student, I&#8217;ve found myself wanting to get more books read.\u00c2\u00a0It&#8217;s the Deathbed Regrets test again: I imagine myself suddenly on my deathbed and think &#8216;if life ended now, what would I most regret not having done?&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>I never think, &#8216;I wish I&#8217;d read more newspapers and magazines.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>I never think, &#8216;I wish I&#8217;d spent more time on Twitter and Facebook.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>And I never think, &#8216;I wish I&#8217;d read more comments left underneath articles on the Internet.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>All of which I fear I&#8217;ve been doing too much of over the past year or so.\u00c2\u00a0What I <em>do <\/em>think is, &#8216;I wish I&#8217;d read more books&#8217;. \u00c2\u00a0Particularly with the English Lit degree; it seems hypocritical to spend time reading ephemeral stuff online that I could have used on a book. \u00c2\u00a0And I&#8217;m not convinced I even enjoy being on Twitter for very long or that I&#8217;m <em>good<\/em>\u00c2\u00a0at it.\u00c2\u00a0So I&#8217;ve been setting myself a goal of reading at least 150 pages of a book a day. For a dyspraxic reader like myself, that&#8217;s achievable. It might also help to increase my reading speed.<\/p>\n<p>Another rule I&#8217;ve set myself is &#8216;one book at a time&#8217; &#8211; no double-booking. I know many people read several books at once, but in my case it just leads to books not being finished.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m also trying to balance\u00c2\u00a0set texts for next year&#8217;s course with books for pleasure, mixing prose with comic books, fiction with non-fiction, favourite authors with unfamiliar ones, and classics with brand new releases.\u00c2\u00a0And it really works: the variety makes all the difference.<\/p>\n<p>So since May 22nd, here&#8217;s what I&#8217;ve read, in order, with links to my reviews on the GoodReads website (a kind of non-Amazon global book group, which if nothing else helps to remind you what you&#8217;ve read).<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/review\/show\/335056037\"><em>Goodbye To Soho<\/em>\u00c2\u00a0by Clayton Littlewood<\/a> (memoir)<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/review\/show\/339514427\"><em>Dirk Gently&#8217;s Holistic Detective Agency<\/em>\u00c2\u00a0by Douglas Adams<\/a> (novel)<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/review\/show\/335056037\"><em>The Handmaid&#8217;s Tale<\/em> by Margaret Atwood<\/a> (novel)<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/review\/show\/344616490\"><em>Virginia Woolf\u00c2\u00a0<\/em>by Alexandra Harris<\/a> (biography)<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/review\/show\/344639912\"><em>Are You My Mother? <\/em>by Alison Bechdel<\/a> (comic book memoir)<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/review\/show\/345138463\"><em>The Sense Of An Ending<\/em> by Julian Barnes<\/a> (novel)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Quick notice for UK readers. If you think the UK law should be changed to allow gay couples to marry, please say so in the consultation at\u00c2\u00a0Out4marriage.com. It&#8217;s essentially a questionnaire that takes about two minutes to click through. But the government will\u00c2\u00a0use the results, so it&#8217;s important. What interests me in particular is that [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[1087,491],"class_list":["post-2799","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-books","tag-goodreads"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dickonedwards.com\/diary\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2799","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dickonedwards.com\/diary\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dickonedwards.com\/diary\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dickonedwards.com\/diary\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dickonedwards.com\/diary\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2799"}],"version-history":[{"count":15,"href":"https:\/\/www.dickonedwards.com\/diary\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2799\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2814,"href":"https:\/\/www.dickonedwards.com\/diary\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2799\/revisions\/2814"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dickonedwards.com\/diary\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2799"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dickonedwards.com\/diary\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2799"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dickonedwards.com\/diary\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2799"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}